Love is all around

It seems like indeed love is all around me!!!
In the month of September ( I am counting 31st August as September) I was invited to 4 weddings. So is this the truth? Is it really that love is all around, or 2013 is just the year of setteling?
I have both categories, I have the ones that are in love and believe it was God who brought them together, I have those who made sacrifices for a decent relationship and now they just need to get married, as otherwise why they sacrifice it all? I have those who have been cheating in the past, and now the marriage is somekind of reddemption, or a special bottle from which cheating and lust will never come out.
And I have a last couple who seems normal, only she is a workaholic.
hmmmm
All of the above make me thinking if is love or just coincidence. Are people in love, or they are just weak and they are embracing marriage as the safest way not to die alone?
Not even sure what to say.
Now the question is what do i want? or how will i know when/if the moment will come that it is for real and that i am not just setteling?
Where to my mind, the people that are planned to be married, they need not to be deeply or maddly in love, but to know each other, to know their thoughts, their behaviours, their biggest fears.
Love is something that will go away soon, friendship and trust is something that will bound people forever.
If you do not know your partner, why jumping into marriage?
Maybe you are just 2 strangers under the impression that you know each other.
Maybe is love that matters as the Bible confirms.
But does the Bible mean Love as in Love? or love as in understanding or friendship or what?

Will come back to the topic....